Sometimes advice from one gender is very useful to the other gender and this is true to a relationship between a man and a woman. And if you, a strong man, have just been in a breakup with your ex girlfriend, you are not as emotionally strong as your outside may appear. In this case, the best thing you should do is to listen to the secrets as well as tips on the side of women on how to treat life in a better way.
Fools Rush in...
There is a reason that this phrase was invented...because it is true. The last thing you want to do after a breakup is chase after her. What I mean to say is...do not keep calling her, showing up at her home or really try to make contact in any way, shape or form. When something is hot and you grab it before it gets a chance to cool down...you get burned. The best way to get your ex back fast is to let them cool down...30 days is a good starting point, but it may take longer.
Eat, Drink and Be Merry
Even though this is a hard time for you, make sure you do not let yourself slip into a depression. Get out there and spend time with family and friends...go to dinner...go to a game, maybe even go on a casual date, but whatever you do...do not go on a drinking binge. Eat, drink and be merry is in that order for a reason... if you drink, drink and forget to eat...you'll be scary. So...to recap go out and have fun but do not start using alcohol as a crutch to get you through this rough time. Your ex will start to miss you sooner if she sees you having fun...not falling apart. You will get your ex back fast if you show her what she is missing...a great guy who does not hold a grudge.